As
I was sitting around this past Easter holiday weekend, watching all the
news stories about the miraculous revelations throughout this country,
I couldn’t help but feel somewhat left out.
There were sightings of Jesus’s face appearing on
windows and crosses on trees. In the past I recall so many news stories
of spiritual phenomena that others have been blessed with in their lives
and I had to wonder why such wonder was not bestowed upon me. Perhaps
it was that I didn’t need these signs of acknowledgement that there
is a higher power.
I am a religious man. I believe in God. I have faith and
I do not question my conviction in regard to the basic beliefs that I
hold true of how I have come to be and what my purpose is for living.
But then it dawned on me. That every day I receive signs of a greater
power. Every day I witness the miracles of life: the birth of a new born
infant, the sweet mischievous innocence of a child as they play, the inquisitive
nature of an adolescent as they mature, and the ageing of an adult as
they transcend into the golden years of astuteness and wisdom.
These, to me, are the signs of true certainty that there
exists a greater power. That there is also a communicable nature that
exists between this greater power and myself. This brings me to the main
focus of this article. After 50 News would like to recognize and honor
the untiring and endless effort of all those in the Western New York community
who serve as providers to our very own Upstate New York Transplant Services,
UNYTS. This is an agency that for over the past quarter of a century has
acted as a “leading procurement organization” in coordinating
the efforts necessary for providing life and quality of life concerns
to those in need.
The Agency
Upstate New York Transplant Services, UNYTS, was established
in 1981. A member of the Buffalo Niagara Medical Campus, UNYTS is a not-for-profit
organization serving the eight counties of Western New York. Its primary
goal is to assist donor families and to coordinate the donation process
in order that we might be able to “give back” the “gift
of life” to others.
For seven of the past eight years, Upstate New York Transplant
Services has been ranked among the top ten procurement organizations nationwide.
The percent of eligible organ donors whose family consent to donation
was 91.1% in 2006. This is the highest among the 58 federally authorized
OPO’s and 30% ahead of the national average, which is approximately
60%.
It is one of only eight nationwide centers that house laboratory
services, and organ, tissue and eye procurement in one location. Since
its inception, the staff of UNYTS has grown from a little over a dozen
people to over 150 Western New Yorkers who continue to work diligently
toward providing opportunity for everyone to give and receive the gift
of life.
The number of donors has grown from 200 to nearly 1,000
over the past ten years. In the summer of 2007, UNYTS has added Community
Blood Banking Services to its operations. With the acquisition of this
service, Upstate New York Transplant Services has provided significant
savings to area hospitals and also assurances to blood donors that their
blood donation remains local.
Affiliated with 28 regional hospitals and working hand-in
hand with procurement organizations across the country, UNYTS has been
successful at spreading the message that transplantation is vital - and
transplantation saves lives. A spokesperson from UNYTS informed me that
over 100,000 people are awaiting transplantation services and that over
450 people in Western New York are in urgent need of these services. He
quoted Mark Simon, President and CEO of UNYTS, as saying that “there
is no greater reward than providing a service that furthers the gift of
life to those in need.”
The Authenticity of Giving
The story you are about to read is a testimonial of a family
whose lives have been changed due to the natural and uncontrollable events
that affect so many. It is a story of both tragedy and bliss. It is a
true account of how sadness and sorrow can be transformed into happiness
and exhilaration. It is the story of Lexi Keller’s miracle.
Lexi is an 8-year-old born August 17, 1999 with a congenital
heart defect. At the age of 5 months, she underwent her first open heart
surgery and six days later Lexi was home. It was a success, but it was
not the end of her challenges.
Her mom and dad knew that before entering school, Lexi
would need another operation. Over the next four years they watched as
she grew along with her family of two new sisters, Hannah and Ella. “Life
was good”, says her mom, Danielle. Then, on June 7, 2004, Lexi underwent
a risky 9-hour open heart surgery that would give her the opportunity
to live a “normal” life. She would no longer need to labor
with each breath. She would be able to run and play with the other children.
Lexi would be able to blossom and grow into a little girl with a “chance
to live life” with her sisters and family.
The prognosis immediately following surgery was good, but
within hours her condition changed. Lexi coded and was quickly placed
on two forms of life support. Her condition worsened and her family was
summoned to come right away if they wanted to see her. That night Lexi
endured six hours of bedside surgery and received 52 units of blood.
Over the next six days she had received 3-½ full
body transfusions and was placed on the heart transplant list. Her own
heart would no longer support her little body. Lexi was now in a coma.
Her eyes closed, her body still, her family longed to see her smile once
again. They longed to hear her speak. They longed for an embrace, a sign
of life from the child they have grown to love as parents do.
After almost two months, the call came that would save
Lexi’s life. “She was getting a heart.” To paraphrase
Lexi’s mom: as Lexi’s parents we were happy but as parents
we were saddened that somewhere another parent had lost their child. We
questioned how, in grief and anguish another mother, on the worst day
of her life, could “choose to give the Gift of Life to another child”,
our child.
On August 7, 2004, Lexi came out of her coma. She thought
that it was still the same day as her initial surgery. Ten days later
Lexi and her family celebrated her 5th birthday at the hospital. Unlike
most five-year-olds who are immersed in ripping off paper from their presents,
Lexi knew that she had already received the “greatest gift of all,”
her life. She simply said, “It’s so nice to have air.”
Today, Lexi lives with her family right here in Western
New York. She is her mom’s “hero.” But her mom recognizes
that Lexi is here today because of the many heroes who contributed to
her “Gift of Life.” To her heart donor and to all of those
who gave blood in order that Lexi might survive long enough to receive
her new chance at living. It is truly a miracle created by a community
of people who care. A community that sustains a greater power than you
or me. A community that exists for the betterment of all.
The complete story of Lexi Keller, told by her mother Danielle,
can be read by visiting www.unyts.org and opening their stories and memoirs
section.
The Challenges of Promise
As UNYTS continues to serve the people of this community,
there are many challenges that must be overcome. Perhaps some of the biggest
are misconceptions that we all have concerning the process of offering
life and addressing quality of life issues for others in need.
The facts are that a single donor can sometimes enhance
the lives of up to 50 people. That you do not have to die to become a
donor. There are living donors that can give a part of their liver to
help others in need.
You do not need to be young to be a donor. Over 36% of
our national donors are 50 years of age or older. People of all ages and
medical history can become donors. Each day, 132 people are added to the
national donor waiting list. Each day, only 79 organ transplants take
place. This has led to a daily growing deficit of 53 people who need help.
This has contributed to 18 people dying each day while waiting for a transplant.
The people of Western New York have responded generously
in an effort to help their neighbors. For this we should all be proud.
That is why I will continue to feel that this is the best place to live
in the world. But more can be done.
I urge you that if you become an organ donor please make
your family aware of your decision in order that they might respect and
honor your wishes. This is often a sensitive and unwanted concern at a
time when a family is already in grief.
Also understand that organ donation is a respectful process
that honors the donors and has absolutely no effect on the burial proceedings
that have been arranged. I have also learned that blood is perhaps the
most needed resource in this process. It is used not only during the operations
but is often needed to sustain life for those who are waiting for a transplant.
This April, UNYTS will sponsor more than 35 blood drives
at various locations throughout Western New York. You are urged to help.
Visit their site at donateblood@unyts.org. for more information.
Finally, I feel that I must share a short story with you.
This past weekend I sadly attended a funeral for the father of a dear
friend of mine. As I sat in the church listening to the eulogies given
by his grandchildren, I heard the resounding message of how Grandpa is
not dead because he will live with us through the many memories of holidays,
vacations and just everyday living.
I feel that this sense of belonging and this need to always
hold on and remember those we have grown to love is a reality that blesses
all of us. I recall a testimonial by a mother about her 14-year-old son,
Andy, who died tragically but was able to provide a chance at life for
someone else. His family donated his organs.
Andy’s mom says, “My beautiful son is gone
forever, but his heart is still beating.” What greater mission can
we embark upon? What greater gift can we give? God has truly blessed all
those who have chosen to serve this cause. May God bless you!!! |